Member "Joe" said:
"Well cant they have more of a automatic way of it shutting down ? Like after it lands . or make it so it cant be shut off in flight ?"
If you are referring to the Transponder? Yes, there
could be ways to make it more "automatic", but that isn't how it works, in real life.
Here is an image of a typical panel that controls the (usually two) transponders on modern airliners:
NOTE that the knob in the lower right corner has, as its last position 'STBY'. Same as "OFF", for all intents and purposes. The rest seems self-explanatory. As long as you undertand what 'TCAS' is, and the 'TA ONLY' and 'TA/RA' positions, and what they mean.