I disagree. These people come to a debunking site and are all aggressive to a greater or lesser degree - IMO they come here to tell us we are wrong, and to hell with whate3ver we may say in return - they are "drive by trolls" out to make a name, to be able to skite to their mates on censored sites that "they couldn't' debunk me (or this or that) at metabunk..." etc.
Govsk didn't come here to debate or learn anything - she came here to tell us we are wrong.
I think we owe them nothing beyond ordinary courtesy according to the rules of this site - if they find that every man and his dog jumps on them with the available evidence debunking their position then that is no more than exactly what this site is about.
The site is about effective debunking though polite engagement. If it's not being effective, then why do it? It just clutters things up. There are other places in the internet for ephemeral arguments.
Who says it is not being effective?
There are many people who have noted that it IS effective for them - however it is never going to "be effective" for everyone, and there is no need to bend over backwards top treating everyone with kid gloves when in many cases the purpose of the posting is to ridicule and attack debunking with no intention of engaging in debate.
Govsk was not dealt with impolitely at all, and I fail to see why there is a problem here.
A new friend of a close relative. Like if your wife invites someone from work home for dinner. Do you end up five minutes into the conversation saying "how convenient for you", or "actual video, lol"?As a general rule of thumb, imagine you are talking to a new friend of a close relative, and be as polite as you would in that situation.
No I think its the fact that they are outnumbered . Its like me spouting my beliefs or politics . So lets all Dogpile . Maybe only let a few engage that are a little less brash or cocky . There are a few here that are better and more convincing than others . No offense Mike but you are not one . IMO of course .Seems for a new posters it would be best to limit the responders to no more than two or so until the person has time to acclimate . . . I don't really know how to do that except by voluntary self-policing . . .
One's home might not be the correct analogy . . . me thinks a better analogy would be inviting potential customers to your new business . . . and trying to get them to stay long enough to browse the merchandise to see how excellent their value is . . .That pretty much depends on whether they come into my home spouting gish gallops about all the things they know I believe in that I am wrong about - TBH if they did that then after 5 minutes they might not be in my home any more......having been politely asked to leave
One's home might not be the correct analogy . . . me thinks a better analogy would be inviting potential customers to your new business . . . and trying to get them to stay long enough to browse the merchandise to see how excellent their value is . . .
No, Shilling implies deceptive, high pressure or misleading tactics . . . I am recommending a period of adjustment and acclimation before a gaggle of salespersons descends on the potential customer . . .Although that sounds a bit too commercial, like shilling
In reading the OP again, it really does come across as sort of a 'shotgun-taunt'. Then saying she won't post any evidence because we will just debate it. Gee, well, there are plenty of places to post that sort of thing if all you want is agreement. Why post it here? What was the point?That pretty much depends on whether they come into my home spouting gish gallops about all the things they know I believe in that I am wrong about - TBH if they did that then after 5 minutes they might not be in my home any more......having been politely asked to leave
Self gratification for the OP.What was the point?