If this logic is sound and it justifies preemptive action then it would seem that we should establish networks to infiltrate Muslim civilizations and get them to blow each other up. And if we really had to, we might sacrifice some of our own people or blow them up in a false flag (as the AIPAC guy was saying) in order to annihilate the other "side."
But the other "side" is not Muslim civilizations. It's the militant jihadist aspects of those civilizations. War does not tend to make people less militant. Nor does annihilating their families.